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Some people are shocked when I tell them I will sometimes masturbate for up to an hour at a time. It’s something that is often met with raised eyebrows and even an air of concern, like I may have something wrong with me. Up until recently, masturbation had been a very private and personal thing for me, as it is with most people. But then when I started opening up about it to certain people, I was met with genuine curiosity and openness.

I learned something truly inspiring. Men...

Good sex, great sex is the most intimate act between two humans. Rushed sex can become throw away, almost pointless.

People can become extremely judgmental if you sleep with too many people, women are especially judged about this. Many cultures say that if you sleep with one guy 1000 times over five years that is better than sleeping with 50 guys, but it is still ten times each over the same period. You had half the amount of sex, but because you slept with 49 more guys...

The doubt is probably seeping through your mind as you read the title of this article, “How many magic mushrooms did he take before he did this?” Fair question, even one of my friends has asked me the same thing! The answer is zero. This was all done with no other medicines or substances.

How did this happen? Well, I was on a body de-armouring retreat and it all went down there. 

What is de-armouring?

A duck, dog, deer, horse, antelope, or zebra (and other animals) all...

“Males do not represent two discrete populations, heterosexual and homosexual. The world is not to be divided into sheep and goats. Nature rarely deals with discrete categories… the living world is a continuum in each and every one of its aspects.”

—Kinsey et al (circa 1948) p 639

That’s Alfred Kinsey, famed creator of the Kinsey Scale. A measure of sexual orientation, and yes, you read that date correctly—1948! If someone who was born in the 1800s...

When people start to talk about female sexuality, they often give great attention to the genital area, or whether the woman reaches orgasm, if at all. It is surprising how many women have problems with their sexuality.

But because it is a subject about which women often have no one to talk to, they feel that they are alone in this problem. There is often little information about sexuality as we grow up, so must become aware of the fact that through the breasts we can not only find...

We are Source. But we are also bodies. That’s what it is to be a human being.

Every one of us is perfection within imperfection. Non-physical within physical. Purity (in the truest meaning of the word) within differentiation.

We share an essence, but yet we are each exquisitely unique in every way. We experience existence as individuals — meaning we exist entirely in relation to one another. And yet we are, by nature, powerfully drawn to each other by means of a shared...

Often young males were in their teens, they started to associate ‘being cool’ with getting laid. Haven’t lost your virginity? Uh oh… you’re not in the cool group. Getting laid was the coolest thing one could do and it seemed as if it was the only way to transform from worthless to worthy. What an unfortunate situation to grow up with that peer pressure and know nothing about intimacy at that point. Even more debilitating to that is the...

In the last couple of months, I have been diving deep into a new way of relating. This new way of relating involves connecting to the mystery of relating. To the not knowing, to the creative power that lies underneath all that manifests in our 3D reality. This new connection to the mystery of relating has given me a huge blessing in the form of an amazing new lover. She embodies Aphrodite and she shares her energy abundantly with me. I am so unbelievably grateful!

As...

Sadly, so many women lose their sexual appetite for reasons too long to mention. The medical industry is shamelessly banking in on “Women’s Sexual Dysfunction”, which is a total sham if you ask me. Short of having a genuine medical issue, there is no such thing as women’s sexual dysfunction.

The biggest thing standing in the way of the long lost days of wet, juicy, fantasy-filled, steamy moments in a woman’s body is a long list of unexpressed emotion,...