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What Is Your Relationship To Sex?

 

Often young males were in their teens, they started to associate ‘being cool’ with getting laid. Haven’t lost your virginity? Uh oh… you’re not in the cool group. Getting laid was the coolest thing one could do and it seemed as if it was the only way to transform from worthless to worthy. What an unfortunate situation to grow up with that peer pressure and know nothing about intimacy at that point. Even more debilitating to that is the...

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11 Questions Before Commitment

 

1). Am I in a rush? 

Do I feel anxious? For example, are you thinking, “If we don’t commit I might lose this person or not get what I want?” If you are thinking this, slow down! Love and especially unconditional love, has infinite patience.

2). Do we have the same core values? 

Core values are: fundamental beliefs, highest priorities, ideas about money and spending, fundamental driving forces. Do you ultimately want the same things from life? Can you...

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How To Choose A Goddess by David Bruce Leonard

 

At some point, we will feel ready to create a partnership in our lives. When meeting a potential candidate, there are questions we should ask ourselves. Does our potential partner resonate with us? Does she resonate more than just sexually? Is there a deeper connection? Do we like how she shows up? Does she align with our values? And more importantly, does she align with our core values? Core values are values that are non-negotiable. Core values are those values that, if compromised,...

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How Do We Know When A Relationship Is Over?

 

A question from an anonymous reader:

How do we know when a relationship is over? I feel like I am growing and evolving faster than my partner and this is causing problems, and I read somewhere, "Have the courage to let go of people who don't grow with you." I do love my partner very much but our paces seem to be different, and I just don’t know when relationships are supposed to end. Can you help?

Dear reader,

It is challenging to know when a relationship is...

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Relationship Is The Greatest Teacher

 

Looking back, I can clearly see that the previous relationships that I experienced reflected my own internal frame of reference – the dominant ideas, wishes and emotions in my mind. As I’ve learned… projection makes perception.

“Men always let women down, relationships don’t work out, the woman has to do everything… etc… etc…” The age-old story of my parents being played out again and again in my mind; reinforced throughout the...

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6 Traits of the New Relationship Paradigm

 

We’ve all seen them, maybe been in one or grew up in one – those relationships that arrive at a certain point in time and then stagnate, with clearly delineated boundaries and roles. At best they are the equivalent of a toddler’s snuggle blanket, making us feel warm, cosy and safe. At worst, they make us feel restricted and lifeless as if we’ve been sealed in a box. And the sad thing is that this form of long term relationship is still the dominant one today,...

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Podcast #77 - Sexless Marriage or Relationship? This Will Help You!

 
 

In this podcast, we discuss with Nicole Ananda about how to have more sex in your relationship or marriage. We talk about FOUR KEY POINTS that you need to follow to get things sexier in your relationship!

Nicole is a Reiki Master, intuitive healer, certified life coach, certified surrogate partner therapist, and founder of the Ananda Integrative Healing Group. She practices intuitive healing to help people heal themselves on every level —...

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Podcast #68 Theogamy & Soul Initiation with Bruce Lyon

 
 

In this podcast we speak to the incomparable Bruce Lyon from The International School of Temple Arts about what he sees is beyond traditional monogamy or polyamory. We also speak about the great soul initiation that Bruce believes is happening on the planet right now. This is a podcast you simply have to share! Bruce can be found at BruceLyon.com

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Podcast #63 Monogamy vs Polyamory

 
 

In this week’s podcast, Steve speaks about his own story with monogamy and he talks about the realisations he has come to in his own journey with sex and relationships.

As noted by Psychology today, “In the state of nature, human beings were generally polygamous, as are most animal species. The few animal species that are monogamous include the emperor penguin, the prairie vole, and the red-backed salamander.” Peter Sage, on our podcast number 6 talks about how...

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Podcast #58 Why Women Are Bitches To Their Men with Nicole Mathieson

 
 

Nicole Mathieson came to us and asked to talk to about why women are bitches to their men. She vulnerably admits that she is a bitch to her husband (of 17 years) and she has figured out why she does it. This deeper level of self-awareness changed everything in her relationship with her husband.

Nicole Mathieson is a relationship coach helping women thrive within relationships. Our intimate relationships challenge us by showing us exactly where we are stuck and which wounds we are...

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