We want to support a culture of evolving people who can see what IS right now, see the perfection in all the working parts good and “bad”, and see their way through the issues of the world to the other side, to the solution, to the solution for the greater good of humanity.
We support people who are on purpose and who will stay on purpose, prioritize their purpose even over our own agendas, and willingly give their gifts to the world.
We take care in the people around us and use our intuition and gifts to help them become the best versions of themselves. We give what we can to help them grow and learn to be better stewards of our families, communities, and the planet.
We face the wounds we have with our fathers and understand how we have emasculated ourselves as well as the men around us. We face our anger and rage and we learn to move into conflict and tension with courage, so that we may come out in forgiveness and be transformed.
We have to get to a place where we can be responsible for our choices and our emotions so that we can stop presenting men with the problems of our own doing, asking them to hold space for us where we are unwilling to hold space for them, and asking them to stay small so that we can feel safe and powerful.
A woman can and will push a man past his edge with our full expression and our womb wisdom. We use our connection to the divine that is unique to us as women to see into his full potential.
Because we cannot do this as women by trying to take over where we feel disappointed in men, we cannot try to do it all ourselves where we feel men have failed.
Sisterhoods of women are powerful. And they become much more powerful when they are supported and protected by the stewardship of good men.
We must be looking inward to our own unique blueprint for our feminine essence to flow forth so that we can have the strength, courage, hearts, and wombs to help birth an evolving manhood as we birth our evolving selves. This is a symbiotic relationship; it always has been, like the kundalini spiral, the spiral structure of our DNA.
We must believe in men. We must believe in ourselves. This is a tall order. But we must hold it in our hearts. We can.
Inspiring your man to greatness – The Three Steps.
Next, you have to get comfortable with breaking his heart. This is a tough one to take as most of us on this journey have had our hearts broken. But you have to break his heart and then stay with your heart open (note: this doesn’t mean be manipulative!) What happens is when you push someone in a way that breaks their heart and you stay, then you start to heal that place in us that is afraid of being abandoned. It’s a huge gift.
The beautiful thing about this is that when you can say the thing that might make him leave when you trust yourself to handle yourself, then that is when you start to trust him to handle you.
Your man might leave, he may lash out, and this is why you have to remain open to anything that might happen. But, in most cases, most men will respond better than you ever expected them to, and you’re not going to have to do this a lot.