Some of the top sex advice we have heard is about how you can use intention to change you start a sex session. Have a look at our top 10 intentions.
When we have the opportunity to make an intention before any act of sexual intimacy, it creates for much better lovemaking!
“It’s time we saw sex as the truly sacred art that it is. A deep meditation, a holy communion and a dance with the force of creation.” Marcus Allen.
The word sexuality (like the word God) has been warped by religion, by media and by many other forms of cultural conditioning. It’s time to drop all these programs and release them NOW!
It certainly helps if you have a male body, that you know how to control your ejaculation – these intentions will be more profound if you can combine the intention with a multi-orgasmic sexual experience.
For now, let’s become more aware of the intentions we can have before sex
We recommend talking with your lover or partner about the intention before you have sex. If you don’t want to talk about it, we highly recommend making a silent prayer of gratitude before being intimate with your lover.
Here are our top 10 favorite ways to use BEFORE you have sex! Let us know which ones you are going to try and how these intentions change your sex life!
Our intention with this list is to help you have greater and more profound sex. Use one of these intentions the next time you make love.
1. To Celebrate
Why not celebrate a recent victory in your life? What have you achieved that you would like to celebrate in your sexual play?
2. To Manifest
When you put the intention to manifest something you want in your life and put both of your intentions together to create that, it becomes way more powerful! All you need to do is dedicate your lovemaking to manifesting whatever it is you desire.
3. To Activate Your Life Force Energy
Sexual energy is life force energy and activating it through our sexuality can help improve our health, vitality and well-being.
4. For Transformation
If you are going through a period of transformation in your life you can use your sex life to be the alchemist to that process.
5. To Build Intimacy
Intimacy with our beloved is one of the most beautiful and vulnerable things we can do in this human body. If you set this as an intention before you make love then it becomes even more potent and powerful.
6. To Connect Even More Deeply With Source
Some of the highest peaks of human experience come when we make love. It is a powerful time to connect to Source.
When we say ‘Source’ – we mean the start of the universe. The Big Bang, if you will. This is the source that we all came from and when we connect to it we get that Oneness feeling. We don’t necessarily need sex to get to this place. We can do it in meditation, in yoga, or even just walking in the park but lovemaking with a partner (or partners) can be an extremely beautiful way to experience Oneness.
7. To Have Fun & Play
Perhaps your intention before lovemaking is to be really playful – this is so important in intimate relationships!
You might want to try something kinky, dress up, slap each other's butts, use a toy, dance around, or use a blindfold. Whatever you choose, our advice is to have fun!
8. To Find More Peace
You can use this intention when things are a little crazy in your day to day life. It helps to set the tone of meditation in your lovemaking.
9. To Energize Your Chakra System & Open Your Pineal Gland
Ever heard of a chakragasm? This is where you activate and move energy from your base chakra up through other chakras. It is possible to have orgasms in every chakra. You can bathe your pineal glands (yours and theirs) in copious amounts of ecstatic energy that you have raised from your root to crown chakras, so your cosmic vision is opened up and you can see multidimensionally!
10. To Experience The Totality Of Your Being
The spectrum of sexuality is so wide that you have the opportunity to let it go and set the intention to experience the totality of your being. Leave the universe to help you co-create a beautiful sexual experience.