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How Do You Know If Are You In The Right Relationship?

How do you know when you’re in the perfect relationship? What ticks the boxes? Would you recognise the right relationship if you had it? Psychologist Robert Sternberg did. For a relationship to skyrocket in the best way possible, he believed that it needed to include three elements, in pretty much equal measures: Intimacy, Commitment and Passion, […]

I Have A Numb Vagina. What Do I Do?

I recently interviewed a woman who told me she has never had any sensation in her vagina and this has been the case since she first had sex aged 19. That is a long time to have a numb vagina. She is now 37 and has finally reached a breaking point in wanting to find a solution […]

Want Better Orgasms? Use Sound! Breathe!

William and his wife, Mildred, are having their monthly sexual intercourse on a Sunday afternoon, just before their afternoon tea. They didn’t know about full body orgasms or how to use sound for better orgasms. – William, is it “in” yet? – Yes, Mildred, it’s “in”. – In that case, (she whispers) “ah”. You don’t […]

9 Tips To Enjoy Receiving Oral Sex (For Her)

It’s OK – you’re not the only one who finds oral sex a little awkward. In fact, having your partner go down on you can be really challenging. You would think that receiving the delicious pleasure of your partner’s tongue on the inner most parts of your delicate folds would be easy, right? But it can […]

The Internal Clitoris

In over five million years of human evolution, only one organ has come to exist for the sole purpose of providing pleasure—the clitoris! The internal clitoris is part of an education most of us never had! There is no requirement for it in reproduction. It does not have a urethra running through it like the penis, and […]

The Top 10 Intentions Before Sex

Some of the top sex advice we have heard is about how you can use intention to change you start a sex session. Have a look at our top 10 intentions. When we have the opportunity to make an intention before any act of sexual intimacy, it creates for much better love making! “It’s time […]

How To Give A Blowjob

First of all, let’s start changing the name of ‘blow job’ to ‘cock workship’ or something similar. It’s not a job. It’s an act of prayer and reverance. In this interview with Ella, we speak about how she learned her expertise on how to give a blowjob that blows his mind. Ella, tell us about […]

How To Eat Pussy (Worship The Goddess!)

In this article on the art of pussy eating we interview our lesbian friend, Lizzie, about how to eat pussy like a king (or queen!) If you need help pleasing the guys, don’t forget our how to give divine a blowjob article  Lizzie, is there more than one-way how to eat pussy? Personally, I don’t think so. […]

Coaching

We have a very small number of one on one coaching slots available with Steve. This is for people who want to go beyond the beyond and transform their life completely. If you feel it’s time to: + Come to sacred union within (with your inner masculine/feminine and inner child) + Experience yourself as exponentially […]

How To Stop Ejaculating

Men are addicted to ejaculation and they don’t even know it. We haven’t been educated to what might help us grow as a species. “The world would be a happier place if men ejaculated less and women orgasmed more”. In this article we look at how to stop ejaculating. We feel it is very important […]

Acupressure For Lovers

Using Acupressure to heighten your sexuality can be satisfying and rewarding in many ways. This article introduces you to the depths of traditional Chinese sexuality and how to stimulate acupressure points to build sexual energy, relieve stress and enhance intimacy. We’ll consider ways to make acupressure experiences intimate. Finally this article presents potent points in […]

What Is Tantric Sex?

What is tantric sex? Once a mysterious ‘other-culture’ practice, tantric sex has all but gone mainstream. Steve Jobs, Sting, Rita Wilson, Woody Harrelson, and Heather Graham are (or were) among admitted devotees to the practice. P. Diddy tweets about his tantric exploits! Discussions about tantric are everywhere, making the quest for the G-spot seem so last millennium. […]

I Have A Numb Vagina. What Do I Do?

I recently interviewed a woman who told me she has never had any sensation in her vagina and this has been the case since she first had sex aged 19. That is a long time to have a numb vagina. She is now 37 and has finally reached a breaking point in wanting to find a solution […]

Why Saying No To Sex Is Sometimes The Fastest Way To Self Love

Ask yourself these questions…  Do you know your true boundaries?  Can you say no in any situation?  Or are you easily persuaded to say yes?  Will you stand up for your rights in ANY situation?  Do you know your moral standards of what is and what is not acceptable for your own body/soul/health/mind? Do you? […]

How To Control Your Ejaculation

This article is based on an interview conducted and recorded with Israel Kanner on November 14, 2013. Israel is a Tel Aviv-based coach who teaches clients to achieve self- understanding and mastery of life through the body. Website: www.israelkanner.com. Full disclosure: He is also this author’s partner, in life and in bed. This article is all […]

Relationship Is The Greatest Teacher

Looking back, I can clearly see that the previous relationships that I experienced reflected my own internal frame of reference – the dominant ideas, wishes and emotions in my mind. As I’ve learned… projection makes perception. “Men always let women down, relationships don’t work out, the woman has to do everything… etc… etc…” The age-old […]

6 Traits of the New Relationship Paradigm

We’ve all seen them, maybe been in one or grew up in one – those relationships that arrive at a certain point in time and then stagnate, with clearly delineated boundaries and roles. At best they are the equivalent of a toddler’s snuggle blanket, making us feel warm, cozy and safe. At worst, they make […]

The Internal Clitoris

In over five million years of human evolution, only one organ has come to exist for the sole purpose of providing pleasure—the clitoris! The internal clitoris is part of an education most of us never had! There is no requirement for it in reproduction. It does not have a urethra running through it like the penis, and […]

What Is Sacred Sexuality?

This article about what is sacred sexuality comes from a transcript of our podcast with Raffaello Mancorda. How would you define sacred sexuality? What is sacred sexuality? It’s a great question. Sometimes I play with words and instead of saying ‘sacred sexuality’ I say ‘sexual sacredness’ – it goes either way. For me, sacred sexuality […]

The Benefits & Dangers of Tantra Workshops

This article is about tantra workshops, tantra tips, and one on one tantra work is about the benefits and dangers of going to workshops and finding a safe and trustworthy practitioner. It is taken from our podcast with Rafaello Manacorda. What is important to look for in a tantra practitioner in one on one work?  First […]

Beautiful Yoni Art – Please Share!

Salt Lake City, USA based media artist Jacqueline Secor is being fanned with increasing praise for her “Diversity of Nature”, a gorgeously unapologetic series of  yoni paintings! This article contains adult content. The project began as Jacqueline’s coping mechanism to body dysmorphic disorder. As a former member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day […]

How To Clean BEFORE Anal Sex

When it comes to having anal sex, you really do need to know how to clean yourself. It makes everything into a much more relaxing experience. This guide is meant for any human with an anus that wishes to have anal sex. This is also a recommended how to clean your ass guide for heterosexual men […]

How To Have Safe Sex

How to have safe sex is something everyone should be asking their sexual partners. Condoms are the easiest and first answer but there are other things we have to think about as well. Such as… How Often Should I Get Tested For STI’s (Sexually Transmitted Infections)? It seems like a simple enough question, but thanks […]

5 Myths About Anal Sex

A lot of misinformation about anal sex exists. We all need an anal sex how to guide. If you don’t know the facts, you might avoid what could be a pleasurable and intimate experience, or you could end up hurting yourself or your partner! We uncover the truth about those myths and offer advice to […]

The Benefits of Pegging

After researching, I decided to bite the bullet. I had kind of been interested in doing this for a while and thought about asking ex girlfriends to fuck me with a strap on but I always thought that they would judge my manhood if I did. At this time in my life I am currently […]

Heal Your Chakra System With Orgasm

Before we dive in and discover how to heal your chakras let’s first talk about what chakras are and what they do. Whether you have felt your chakras are not they are there in your body. Some people get caught up and think the word chakra is too “spiritual” and they can’t believe it exists. […]